I am a young female and have been dating someone for the past few months. I am a convert and it seems that being in my 20s is considered an old maid. This guy is verbally and psychically abusive to me. We do not attend the same ward but people in my ward including my bishop are starting to ask questions about why I am so sad and jumpy all the time. Honestly I have been in abusive realtionships in the past. It is reallly strange because my mom and dad where never abusive to each other in anyay. I guess I feel like this the best I can get and if I leave him I can forget about ever getting married.