For me, the most frustrating part of being married to a non-Mormon is the Evangelical MIL. Despite my sharing my testimony of Jesus, my love and acceptance of the Savior, and my attended (her) church with her numerous times, she refuses to accept me as anything as an "unsaved heathen". This belief causes her active pain and distress, but she refuses to listen to how I love my Savior and am "saved" by her own standards. She refuses to my professing of Jesus, saying "you're just brainwashed to go where you're comfortable". Brainwashed is the literal word she uses. I... this honestly makes my blood boil. I don't understand her willful ignorance to cling desperately to a belief which actively causes her great pain and refusing to at least talk to me about it. I don't understand. And I must accept it. I must accept it as her choice and how things will be for the time being. Man, this is hard....