This has been something that has been on my mind lately. I request that everyone on this site not go around in the real world saying "this gal on the internet has a brother..."
My little brother and his wife have been married for two years. Their marriage is, as the subject suggests, technically unconsummated. They love each other, but this is a HUGE struggle in their marriage and I think the pain got even worse after I was married.
I am one of the few people privy to this (which is why I stress the internet anonymity here).
They have been to all sorts of counselors, but my SIL is no longer interested. In fact, she's pretty much okay with the situation. Meanwhile, my brother feels like he merely has a nice roommate.
DOing internet research, I've found this is a lot more common than anyone would like to admit and the trouble is largely no one wants to admit it.
So... any advice?