WakkoWarner Posted September 22, 2005 Report Share Posted September 22, 2005 I can't believe that there is a singles board available & the are no single girls here! Amazing!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted September 24, 2005 Report Share Posted September 24, 2005 I am right here... yep here I am. ~Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WakkoWarner Posted September 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted September 24, 2005 Well, I guess that is a start. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldsgurl_2002 Posted October 6, 2005 Report Share Posted October 6, 2005 i am almost a "single" im only 17 but im almost 18...does that count?? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bibi0538 Posted October 21, 2005 Report Share Posted October 21, 2005 SINGLE GIRL HERE FROM HOUSTON TEXAS!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stellati Posted October 30, 2005 Report Share Posted October 30, 2005 I'm a single white female, looking for a man like you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 They are all in highschool.. good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 I am so not in High School, I have been out of high school for two years now thank-you! ~Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 mormon i was kidding your a great girl, but the reason your not around is you think boyz are pigs right? jk luv ya. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Well most men, I have met a few good guys but I will say and you agree some guys are pigs, and yes some girls are too. I don't know there didn't seem like much to stick around for some I come and go. Maybe I will stick around for a while... ~Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 marraige hits you in the face when you least expect it . God's plans arent always ours but in the long run its always better his way.. Just have fun being single and being you an he will come .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted November 5, 2005 Report Share Posted November 5, 2005 I don't know if that was directed toward me or not, but you are right. ~Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 5, 2005 Report Share Posted November 5, 2005 where are you from mormongal? did a guy do something mean to you lately Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted November 6, 2005 Report Share Posted November 6, 2005 I am from California, but I now live in New York and yes I just had to break off an engagment because a guy lied to me about prompting of the spirit. SO I am open minded and know that guys are not all pigs... I just found one big one. ~Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 6, 2005 Report Share Posted November 6, 2005 mormon gal, you are the only one who can have the prompting wheather or not to marry someone, if he said that he knew you were supposed to then hopefully next time you relize you can marry anyone as LONG as you have God in your life and so does he and you both communicate, but i do think there are people out there better for us then others and when we think we have found the right one we go to God and say I am going to marry this man please help me know if my decision is right, it isnt God tell me yes or no, becasue we have our agency and he isnt going to tell us what to do but he will confirm it, same with babies a lot of people think oh ills tay on b.c cause if the lord wants it it will happen,. but no it wont if we are preventing it beacsue we have the agency to chose... also i never prayed, or read too manys criptures with my fiancee becasue we can read things into things that aren't there and i never read his blessing and put ME into it when it talked about hsi wife, so becareful i think husband and wife should kneel down together alone but as fiancee i think little prayers are ok,. but when it comes time to ask god if it is right do it alone. Im sorry you were hurt, but know there is someone out there and listen to your heart. p.s what did he do with the spirit? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted November 6, 2005 Report Share Posted November 6, 2005 Well he asked me too marry him, and I gladly said yes because I loved him. He had often told me the he knew by the power of the spirit that I was the girl he was to marry, and I believed him with all my heart. But like you siad I too can get the promtings of the spirit, so I too kneeled one night and prayed telling Heavenly Father that I had found a wonderful man and that I wished to marry him if that was his will. I didn't feel a no, I didn't feel a yes but what I started to feel was that the spirit was not as strong when I was with him, not that it left me but that it was trying to tell me something, that subconcously I didn't want to hear. We went to the Oakland Temple, one of our friends was getting married, and we sat on the Balcony talking, and the things the spirit told me that day, I can't desicribe but I knew I had to get a blessing, because I had this terrible feeling. So I asked my friends father if he would give me a blessing, and he knew that I was engaged. During the blessing he told me that Heavenly Father is preparing a special young man for me that can provide me with the life I missed growing up (Priesthood in the Home) and then he told me I had yet to meet the man I was to marry. I was heart broken and could not stop crying, but I couldn't deny the spirit that dwelt inside me telling me this was truth. I stood up turned to him and he too was crying, he said he knew that it was hard for me to hear that, but that that is what Father in Heaven needed me to hear. So never the less I broke up with him, I didn't tell him of the blessing because it didn't feel right at the time, but I did tell him that we should call off the engagment. A couple nights later, I felt compelled to call him, and I did, that night I told him of my blessing. Then it hit me... Heavenly Father does not work in confusion, someone wasn't being honest, and I knew I was. So I asked him, and he admitted that he had falsified promtings of the Spirit because he was afraid to lose me. I don't know that you wanted the whole story but there it is... ~Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 6, 2005 Report Share Posted November 6, 2005 so you knew before the blessing but you kept trying to deny it? That is how the spirit works, now you know next time that it will be your choice and whenever a guy says the spirit says your to be my wife.. say well taht would be nice but only we can have personal revelation for each of ourselves. lol so how long ago was this? do you have your endowments out? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 The wedding was planned for September, I broke up with him in June. I decided not to go through with getting my endowments but to wait until I have truley found the man I will marry. And I don't know that I knew, I just knew something was going on. But love, or what one percieves as love can be very blinding when it is built on lies. ~Allie PS. Trust me I have learned my lesson. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 sorry you had to learn it that way! How are you doing now? ive never heard of someone saying in a blessing one wasnt right buti guess he felt prompted to tell you that so you found out he was lying, and if that little thing he was lying about what else was there or couldve been. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 Everything has a reason. Because of what happened with him I was forced to move away from there and now I live in New York. I am enjoying the happiest time in my life right now, I may not be married, and I may not yet have children of my own, but I know that I am on the right path and that man is out there that can increase my happiness. ~Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 Marriage comes when you least expect it, so have fun living your life and God will slap ya with a BAMB and you will find a good guy. where are you from did you say? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 I am from California. ~Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 8, 2005 Report Share Posted November 8, 2005 i keep getting you mixed up with mormon girl 611.. so what is your life like now? are yu the oldest ?are you in school? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mormon_gal Posted November 8, 2005 Report Share Posted November 8, 2005 Life is great, better than great. I am a Nanny in New York for 4 beautiful girls. I have grown away from my family over the years but we are attempting to become more like a family and in the children I grew up with I am the middle. You know you seem to have alot of insight in helping people, if you would be willing to help me with a few of my problems that would be great, nothing serious I just don't want to post them all over a message board. ~Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzysmiles Posted November 8, 2005 Report Share Posted November 8, 2005 i would love to allie, and your absolutly right, I LOVE to help people and have a lot with advice i think it makes me happy, infact tahts what im hopefully going into one day.. Whats the problem? if youd rather go ahead and email me at [email protected] or ill check this again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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