So my basic questions are, 1. Would you ever recommend marrying someone that has a porn addiction? 2. What is a reasonable amount of time to expect for him to achieve sexual sobriety (assuming he is enthusiastically working on recovery)? 3. What is a reasonable amount of time for him to be sober before considering engagement?   Now for some background.   I know that pornography is a HUGE problem that is mostly unspoken in the church. My parents went through a very, very messy divorce where the s