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There is a difference between loving somebody and wanting somebody.   He doesn't love you, he only wants you.  If you love somebody you don't pressure them to give up their happiness for your own pleasure, you don't force yourself on them with no concern for their feelings, goals, standards etc.  You can do better than him.  If he is LDS, then that makes what he did even worse and he should see his Bishop if he really is sorry about it.  You were unwilling so there is reason for you to feel guilty over HIS misbehavior.

 

I'm sure if you dump him he'll get all apologetic and swear to never cross the line again.  All abusers act that way.  I'd say don't give in, if he can get what he wants from you and talk you into letting him come back, you encourage him to do more of the same.  You set a line, he crossed it, you called him on it and HE DID NOT CARE and crossed it even further.  He abused you and no good man will ever put a woman in a position where she has be be forceful to protect herself from him.

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