Midwest LDS Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 (edited) So if the sisters will be gone, that means we can talk about whatever we want right? The joys of polygamy, maybe set up a tutorial on how to get your wife to make you a sandwich, how much harder it is to be a priesthood holder than a mom stuff like that ๐๐๐๐๐๐? (Sarcasm just in case it's misunderstood) Edited October 8, 2018 by Midwest LDS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilentOne Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 2 minutes ago, Midwest LDS said: So if the sisters will be gone, that means we can talk about whatever we want right? The joys of polygamy, maybe set up a tutorial on how to get your wife to make you a sandwich, how much harder it is to be a priesthood holder than a mom stuff like that ๐๐๐๐๐๐? Because it's not like there's any chance of us coming back in a couple weeks and reading what was posted while we were gone. Midwest LDS and classylady 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
classylady Posted October 8, 2018 Author Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 For me, the hardest thing to do will be no FaceBook. ย Thatโs how I stay in touch with my married children and keep up with my grandchildren. I donโt think I overuse FaceBook. ย I usually skim through it several times a day. ย Itโs also how I know whatโs happening with my neighbors and ward members. I had the opportunity to minister to one of my inactive neighbors last week. ย They posted on FaceBook that theirย car wasnโt working and they had no way to get their boys to the bus stop for the military academy their boys attend. I was able to help by driving the boys and picking them up on Thursday and Friday. ย I hope they donโt need help this week because I wonโt know unless Iโm contacted directly. mirkwood and Maureen 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesZA Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 6 hours ago, MormonGator said: I enjoy my time on social media. I like being able to check the news, discuss/debate politics, music, etc. Some of my friends live far away and it's the best way to communicate with them, check up on their lives. It doesn't give me any stress at all.ย Disclaimer: I haven't seen the women's session (for what are probably obvious reasons, I hope?) - but Pres. Nelson invited the youth to do a similar thing a little while ago. My wife is in the YW presidency in our ward so she did it with them. Just like normal fasting isn't about giving up food entirely, but rather strengthening our spirits over our physical needs, so I think this social media fast is to strengthen our spirits over our social desires and urges. Because let's face it, maybe not with everyone, but with a lot of people the social media is out of control. Even for those who don't have a problem this can be a blessing. (I'm not really on many social media, a couple of forums perhaps, so it wasn't too hard for me to join the youth in their fast recently ๐ 2 hours ago, classylady said: For me, the hardest thing to do will be no FaceBook. ย Thatโs how I stay in touch with my married children and keep up with my grandchildren. I donโt think I overuse FaceBook. ย I usually skim through it several times a day. ย Itโs also how I know whatโs happening with my neighbors and ward members. I had the opportunity to minister to one of my inactive neighbors last week. ย They posted on FaceBook that theirย car wasnโt working and they had no way to get their boys to the bus stop for the military academy their boys attend. I was able to help by driving the boys and picking them up on Thursday and Friday. ย I hope they donโt need help this week because I wonโt know unless Iโm contacted directly. This is a real concern. With families being spread all over the world (or even just in different cities), social media has become a good way to keep in touch. I guess that in the strictest sense if one wants to fast from all social media for 10 days, this could cut you off from your family, which I don't think is in the spirit of what was being asked. One could find a bit of a distinction in the kinds of social media that one uses though. Something like Skype is more "focused" if you will? It lets you make a phone-call or text message much like a normal phone, but cheaper. Something like Facebook on the other hand, while it does have those functions, also bombards you with lots of other stuff which is calculated to keep your eyeballs on the web-page as long as possible so that Facebook can make money by showing you ads. The things it shows you are not necessarily good for you, but only calculated to keep you there for as long as it can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anatess2 Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 I'm not participating in the ten-day-fast from social media because...ย 1.) it's part of my job.ย 2.) it's my primary communication tool with my family.ย 3.) the way I leverage social media allows me to continue using social media while fulfilling the objectives of the fast. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
person0 Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 2 minutes ago, anatess2 said: 1.) it's part of my job. You should use your vacation days so you can take off work and be obedient to the 10 day social media fast. Quote 2.) it's my primary communication tool with my family๏ปฟ. "For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law."ย (Matt 10:35) You can't go 10 days without your family? Quote 3.) the way I leverage social media allows me to continue using social media while fulfilling the objectives of the fast. Similar to:ย 'The way I eat this cheeseburger allows my stomach to stay full while still fulfilling the law of the fast'. (I am joking - In case it wasn't obviousย ๐) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anatess2 Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 (edited) 23 minutes ago, person0 said: You should use your vacation days so you can take off work and be obedient to the 10 day social media fast. Contract workers don't get vacation days.ย We're on a no-work=no-pay lifestyle that comes with "you signed the contract, you better do the work". ย 23 minutes ago, person0 said: "For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law."ย (Matt 10:35) You can't go 10 days without your family? Also the child or ox that fell in the well. My family is spread out all around the globe.ย My family is the "welfare safety net" for every member of the family.ย The 10-day social media fast has zero intention to fast from family and especially service obligations. ย 23 minutes ago, person0 said: Similar to:ย 'The way I eat this cheeseburger allows my stomach to stay full while still fulfilling the law of the fast'. (I am joking - In case it wasn't obviousย ๐) Fasting from social mediaย jokes is part of the 10-day fast.ย Joking also. ย ย ย Edited October 8, 2018 by anatess2 person0 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jane_Doe Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 (edited) 1 hour ago, anatess2 said: I'm not participating in the ten-day-fast from social media because...ย 1.) it's part of my job.ย 2.) it's my primary communication tool with my family.ย 3.) the way I leverage social media allows me to continue using social media while fulfilling the objectives of the fast. +1 Pres. Nelson's challenge wasn't to blanket ditch all social media, but to focus on those that uplift us, and having each person pray on specific guidance. ย Communicating with family and doing your job definitely fit in the good and/or needed category. ย ย For another example: my little sister works for Twitter. ย Social media is literally her job, so she'll be on it while she's clocked on. ย Other times though, that's up to her choice (aided by the Holy Ghost, of course). Edited October 8, 2018 by Jane_Doe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emmanuel Goldstein Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 My fast begins now. See you all in ten days. NeuroTypical, JohnsonJones and Grunt 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zil Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 1 hour ago, person0 said: (I am joking - In case it wasn't obviousย ๐) I'm wondering if folks have listened to what he actually said.ย My take is that if something fits President Nelson's description of what should be excluded, it also should not be returned to, ever.ย At the moment, my pondering is to identify those things and just plain exclude them, then to fast from the remaining things (though I have concerns about one of them, so I need longer to decide) so that I can afterwards evaluate whether I correctly identified them as "ok to keep" or whether they too should be entirely excluded.ย Maybe I'm overthinking, but I'm me, so this is what I'm doing.ย My thought is that if I do this very deliberately - finding my own motivation and benefits and understanding, it will help me to break habits and permanently give up bad things rather than simply abandoning them for 10 days and going right back to them after that period is over.ย (And, frankly, I don't really use social media beyond 2 forums - it's primarily other media that I need to consider.) The Folk Prophet and JohnsonJones 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
person0 Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 26 minutes ago, zil said: My take is that if something fits President Nelson's description of what should be excluded, it also should not be returned to, ever.๏ปฟย At the moment, my pondering is to identify those things and just plain exclude them I like that.ย The only social media I use is this forum.ย I have a Facebook account, but I only check it once every 3-4 month's or so, just to see if I missed any messages.ย On the rare occasion that I post something, I usually delete it after 7 days. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lost Boy Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 I could give up the social media.ย It is the anti social media that I really like.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maureen Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 29 minutes ago, person0 said: ...On the rare occasion that I post something, I usually delete it after 7 days. Why do you delete it after 7 days? M. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
person0 Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 11 minutes ago, Maureen said: Why do you delete it after 7 days? M. Just personal preference, not sure I have a good reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Overwatch Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 Oh my goodness. Some of the sisters on this site are so addicted they are still here saying Mormonhub isn't social media x_xย Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fether Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 26 minutes ago, Overwatch said: Oh my goodness. Some of the sisters on this site are so addicted they are still here saying Mormonhub isn't social media x_xย My wife gets on my back all the time cause she says Iโm addicted to โthe hubโ. I totally agree. Facebook never had such a grasp on my time as the Hub now has. But now with the name change to third hour, I can justify itย ย by saying Iโm making up for lost church time The Folk Prophet, SilentOne, Sunday21 and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Folk Prophet Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 30 minutes ago, Fether said: My wife gets on my back all the time cause she says Iโm addicted to โthe hubโ. I totally agree. Facebook never had such a grasp on my time as the Hub now has. But now with the name change to third hour, I can justify itย ย by saying Iโm making up for lost church time You can only spend an hour a week then.ย JohnsonJones and SilentOne 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MormonGator Posted October 8, 2018 Report Share Posted October 8, 2018 I hope all of our Florida sisters are not fasting from social media. We have a tropical storm coming and social media was crucial in seeing who was okay, who still had power, who needed anything last few storms we've had.ย Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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