First of all, forget the above.  Stop comparing yourself to others.  Stop worrying about whether / how others are sinning.  This can only harm you and never help.  Their choices are theirs and they will answer for them.  Your choices are yours and you will answer for them.  So just let it go.  You cannot change it, so don't let it change you. Choose to be humble rather than being ashamed. Members (including us) have no authority or keys to tell you about tithing.  This is between y