Nerd has nothing to do with it.  You already know what the problem is: so get off your tush and do something about it. Yes, your "big fear" is not a fear-it is truth that you are unwilling to admit to yourself, so instead of confronting it and dealing with it you couch it in emotional terms of "fear". Scriptures tell us that we are to leave our mother and father and become one with our spouse. What exactly have you done to demonstrate to a prospective wife that you are not only willing, but