So I have discovered that my husband of 21 yrs is drinking alcohol.  I have found it hidden multiple times.  I have confronted him and he says when he can’t sleep he will drink some to help.  Yes I suggested melatonin, and even a prescription sleep aid.  Plus he said it’s stress, and this is how he copes.<—this is the real reason he drinks I believe. now, we are in a stressful situation.  Quick explanation, 18 yr old  son is causing havoc, even got himself arrested.  (And more to that st