History. Well, they are still trying to figure out what happened with the shooting of John Kennedy. That happened in the 1960's and they keep regurgitating it. They cannot really determine what happened...even with cameras rolling. Historians can only take a stab at what happened in the War of 1812, too. It is often hard to determine what happened "way back then".
If your husband does leave just try to live your religion as much as you can and show your love toward him. You never know when the wind blows 'round again.
