jorys22

Morningstar yeah i know her job is hard and i am constantly trying to get her to find a hobbie. on weekends we both get up her on sat. me on sunday. but i will have to try getting out with the kids so she can get some things done. and i am willing to try reading the book and i know my wife will also. as for kids I have a son 1 1/2 and a daughter 3 1/2 they are good kids and of course tireing i get home and i know her job is hard but she does get a chance to sit down and relax during the day where i don't, but she seems to think that hers is worse. I know mentally kids are more tireing but physically myjob is more tiring and a lot more stressful because my work is not something i love where even though kids are tough its a job of love so the stress while still there is completly different. Ty for the suggestions

Hello Ok my wife and i are both very frustrated and we continually argue over the same things. We both feel we are trying but nothing changes. I feel that I try to spend as much time with them as i can i work for the military and that unfortunately leaves her stuck in Germany Taking care of the kids without many friends to help break up her day so its the same thing every day for her. On the weekends i am worn out and tired i would rather sit in the house with them then go out doing things and she gets very upset and i feel like if i ever want to do anything i will get in trouble and she will be mad at me. I need some relax time i need some me time and she wants me to explain exactly how much i need so she can schedule the day. I try to tell her that it is different every day some times i am more stressed and need more time to just chill. I still go to the park with them multiple times a week and then the one time i say I'm just going to sit in here and relax she gets so mad and is crying and telling me that i need to prioritize things that i don't spend family time. No matter what i say she seems to only see the negative what should i do? Should i just give up being me and do everything she wants all the time? If i do that things won't last cause unhappy is unhappy. i try to get her to take her time but I'm still never good enough it seems. So please some advice would be appreciated. HELP!!!!!!!