mormon_gal

Newest update... I am no longer single I am getting married in November! To that man that has and will continue to increase my happiness from now until enernity. ~Allie

Underage? I am not sure how old the guys are here but i am not underage. Last time I checked 19 was legal. ~Allie

Thats smart... I was rather curious why it would be Justlooking. Well glad you have done more than look. ~Allie

"Justlooking" so you have taken everything we needed to get out of this disscussion and sumed it up. I second what you have said and for once find no objections. Thanks. ~Allie

I sent you an e-mail you didn't get it? ~Allie [email protected]

Yes those words "Everything has a reason" will help more people through hard times than anything else. I am glad you enjoyed reading it, I feel alot better after telling it. ~Allie

I stand corrected then, I will not call men pigs and since I am having a good day I will refrain from replacing it with any other word. ~Allie

Life is great, better than great. I am a Nanny in New York for 4 beautiful girls. I have grown away from my family over the years but we are attempting to become more like a family and in the children I grew up with I am the middle. You know you seem to have alot of insight in helping people, if you would be willing to help me with a few of my problems that would be great, nothing serious I just don't want to post them all over a message board. ~Allie

I am from California. ~Allie

Everything has a reason. Because of what happened with him I was forced to move away from there and now I live in New York. I am enjoying the happiest time in my life right now, I may not be married, and I may not yet have children of my own, but I know that I am on the right path and that man is out there that can increase my happiness. ~Allie

The wedding was planned for September, I broke up with him in June. I decided not to go through with getting my endowments but to wait until I have truley found the man I will marry. And I don't know that I knew, I just knew something was going on. But love, or what one percieves as love can be very blinding when it is built on lies. ~Allie PS. Trust me I have learned my lesson.

Well he asked me too marry him, and I gladly said yes because I loved him. He had often told me the he knew by the power of the spirit that I was the girl he was to marry, and I believed him with all my heart. But like you siad I too can get the promtings of the spirit, so I too kneeled one night and prayed telling Heavenly Father that I had found a wonderful man and that I wished to marry him if that was his will. I didn't feel a no, I didn't feel a yes but what I started to feel was that the spirit was not as strong when I was with him, not that it left me but that it was trying to tell me something, that subconcously I didn't want to hear. We went to the Oakland Temple, one of our friends was getting married, and we sat on the Balcony talking, and the things the spirit told me that day, I can't desicribe but I knew I had to get a blessing, because I had this terrible feeling. So I asked my friends father if he would give me a blessing, and he knew that I was engaged. During the blessing he told me that Heavenly Father is preparing a special young man for me that can provide me with the life I missed growing up (Priesthood in the Home) and then he told me I had yet to meet the man I was to marry. I was heart broken and could not stop crying, but I couldn't deny the spirit that dwelt inside me telling me this was truth. I stood up turned to him and he too was crying, he said he knew that it was hard for me to hear that, but that that is what Father in Heaven needed me to hear. So never the less I broke up with him, I didn't tell him of the blessing because it didn't feel right at the time, but I did tell him that we should call off the engagment. A couple nights later, I felt compelled to call him, and I did, that night I told him of my blessing. Then it hit me... Heavenly Father does not work in confusion, someone wasn't being honest, and I knew I was. So I asked him, and he admitted that he had falsified promtings of the Spirit because he was afraid to lose me. I don't know that you wanted the whole story but there it is... ~Allie

I am from California, but I now live in New York and yes I just had to break off an engagment because a guy lied to me about prompting of the spirit. SO I am open minded and know that guys are not all pigs... I just found one big one. ~Allie

I don't know if that was directed toward me or not, but you are right. ~Allie

Well most men, I have met a few good guys but I will say and you agree some guys are pigs, and yes some girls are too. I don't know there didn't seem like much to stick around for some I come and go. Maybe I will stick around for a while... ~Allie