I've done some more digging around and may have an answer. It is a liability thing. The church can't be responsible for sponsors telling their sponsees what to do. If a sponsor told his sponsee to do something inappropriate it could legally come back to the church. NA doesn't have that problem because they are unaffiliated. They have let the church use the principles of their program and let the church change it to fit better with the church's principles. It still seems a little gray to me so hopefully they can make some changes. I guess I could drag someone to an NA meeting and ask them to be my sponsor there. That would be a way around it. I highly value having a sponsor. Someone who knows where I am, understands my problems, backs me up but keeps me in check and calls me on my garbage. Even here in Utah it's been a challenge to find an LDS sponsor and I go to many meetings. NA has a lot to offer me but the ARP meeting complete and tie my program together. I hope to become a facilitator someday and then a missionary. I came home early from my mission so I want another chance. Thanks.
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