Hi all - My subject matter is VERY personal and I don't think I can ask my RS president or my Bishop about this, so please bear with me. I am 54 and have been married to my 2nd husband for over 9 years now. I consider myself to be fairly attractive and have taken good care of myself. My husband has not been intimate with me for over 5 years!!!!! I have spoken with him about it, and he comes up with the fact we work opposite schedules, too tired, etc, and then says, "we will, we will". But come on, 5 years? I have considered the fact he might be gay, but it just doesn't seem to fit......also, wondered if he had a girlfriend.....that doesn't seem to be the case either. I am not naive and don't want to spend eternity with someone who doesn't enjoy the tenderness and sweetness of being intimate. I have spoken to my family doctor, who happens to be LDS. He suggests that it might be a chemical imbalance......What does a healthy 54 year old woman do in a situation like this......grin and bear it???? Sincerely, I appreciate any advice anyone can give me.......thanks in advance
