NormalGuy

This is what I said in the first post: "Wondering if any of you have had any experience with a widow wanting to cancel the sealing to her deceased husband, so that she can be sealed to her current husband." I posted this because I was hoping that maybe someone else who had been through the process could help us understand how it all works. Next time I will know to say: "Please keep all of your opinions to your self, as I am not interested in what any of you think." I am really quite put off by the mentality of posters on this board. Knowing nothing about a situation, they are ready to criticise, judge and condemn a person who is just wanting some information. You should change the name of this place to LDS Gossip. I know none of you and I don't want to share any of the details of my life with you. I also don't want you sitting in judgement of me when you know nothing about me. I don't care to know if you think it is right or wrong. How can you even have an opinion when you know none of the circumstances? Since no one has said anything about being in the same situtation, I will assume that no one here can help. I see no reason to ever come back to this board again. Have a nice day

Some of the posters on this board seem to have a very limited view of life and the realities associated with relationships. There could be plenty of valid reasons. Thinks about this. What if the guy went inactive soon after the marriage and treated his wife very poorly. The wife stayed in the marriage hoping things would improve but things only got worse. There is little love or respect in the marriage, certainly no thoughts or desires of building an eternal union. The husband dies a premature death. The wife later meets a wonderful man who treats her like the special person she is. After living with her second husband for a few years, she realizes that this is the man she wants to spend eternity with, not the slob that she was first sealed to. What is wrong with this lady wanting to be sealed to someone who is striving to qualify for the celestial kingdom, instead of knowing that she is sealed to a man who showed no interest in an eternal marriage?

You know nothing of the details of this person. I am not asking for your pious, judgemental opinions, please keep them to yourself.

Thank you, I was beginning to wonder if this was just a forum for jokesters

Well then you better take good care of your wife and do all you can to make her happy so if you die, she won't find someone else who can make her life better than what you gave her.

Yes I know, we have been working on this for several years. I am looking for others who have been or are in a similiar situation. There are a lot of theories and opinions about this, I have already heard all of those. Just looking for feedback from anyone else who is trying or has tried.

Hi, Newbie here . Wondering if any of you have had any experience with a widow wanting to cancel the sealing to her deceased husband, so that she can be sealed to her current husband.