This is part of the reason I am so nervous. I can't understand why he would marry me if I was unsure about being a member. He is very good about asking me if I have questions about any of his "crazy Mormon things" as I playfully call them, and I am never disappointed with the answers. They do make a lot of sense... but I haven't found it in my heart that they are what I truly believe. We do need to have this talk again, I admit. We haven't had it in awhile. I don't have any problems with the LDS church. My family on the other hand.... You are definitely right about communication. I think that is how we have made it this far! Thanks for the feedback! Well I love him to death and he deserves the world. :) I just pray that if I decide on sticking with the crazy ol' foot washin Presbyterians he won't despise the fact that I'm his wife. My family loves him as well. More than any other one I have drug home. I guess that's a good thing since he plans to have me be his wife by the end of next year! I have read some of the book of Mormon. Being his good post missionary self, one of the first things he gave me when we started dating was the book of Mormon (not knowing I had about 5 copies at home) and had written a very sweet message and listed some passages for me to read as well. The only thing is, I don't get much out of reading, I need explaining. I just want completely unbiased explaining and I 'm not sure where to find it. Thanks for all the feedback! I need all the help I can get!