Hi Jolly and Pam,
thank you for your prompt reply,It is my hope that along the line I will be able to say something that might be helpful, or just be there to listen, that is all most people need, it is so hard to find someone who will really listen .
By the way Pam, in the vast scheme of things two years is as a blink of the eye, besides it is better late than never...........GOD BLESS:)