Scared is probably an understatement… I need some support and advice. I have been friends with my husband for 13 years we have been together for 5 and married for 3. When we got married we moved from the promise land (SLC) to Vegas. We have had our ups and downs. Over a year ago my husband came to me and said that he was not happy. We were going to try and make things work… well we really didn’t. Now it has come up again and he is planning on going home in the next few weeks. He says that he is just not happy with who he is, and where he is and he doesn’t know what he wants. He is confident that I don’t make him happy, he says he still loves me but can’t be with me. We didn’t have a lot of the challenges that others face there has only been one pressing issue which is very trivial, it was a matter of trust and being shady. He would talk to people and send texts to ex girlfriends, which he knew I didn’t like. I think that this is and was just a way to push me away and make it ok in his mind. I love my husband very, very much and I only want what is going to make him happy so I reluctantly said ok, I will help you. I was raised with very little church involvement and don’t have the firmest testimony to fall back on. We were married in the temple and I am afraid of how that is going to affect us both. I forgot to mention that he doen't want to work it out and because i work in counseling her refuses to see a counselor.
