I think making out is ok if you and your boyfriend/girlfriend talk about it before hand. You have to tell them about your standards, if they're not a member, if they are they should know. It might sound alittle embarrassing to talk about it but if you truly like that person than you should be totally open to talking about it. Plus, if you know that you can control your self and not let yourself get carried away i think its fine, just remember there are consequences for your actions. : ) <3