I am currently and "Intended Mother". After reading everyone's opinion, I can see there is little understanding about surrogacy. My husband & I, (Married 17 years in temple) took "My" egg and "His" sperm. Working through an amazing agency, we found a surrogate who is: Married 15 years, two of her own children, stable, and she went through a gammet of tests on all levels to qualify as a surrogate. She is kind, loving, motherly, and is thrilled to go through this journey with us. We are NOW expecting a little girl! We are increasing our family, bringing a spirit into a righteous home, with two loving parents, and extended family. Why are we as mormons so critical, and judgemental on the issue of surrgocacy when we virtually don't know anything about it?