hi jorsen,
you know, this is a really hard topic to discuss for a couple of reasons. first off i want to explain that i have been in your exact situation. in my case i was baptized at 18, went on mission, married a wonderful girl in the temple, have two kids, and it's 10 years later. a few years ago i found many of the things online that you allude to have read. in fact i bet the website you said you posted on, i've been to. i also am a very logical person, and it's hard for me to fall back on spiritual things if some logical piece of information is in the forefront.
i almost left the church and ruined my life because of those things that i had read. i won't go into how you should go about figuring out your next move because the previous post was great at that. what i really want you to know is that i've been there. i know the despair you are feeling, and that you just want to follow the truth and make sure you are not being duped. i know that it feels like your on a precipice and it is really disheartening. what i can tell you is that some people can take a simple truth and distort it to fit their agenda. it doesn't matter what it is, someone can make something innocent look like an alterior motive. the point is, is that the gospel doesn't exist with logic. if it did, the eternities would be easily explained and the gospel wouldn't be hard to follow. perfection would be so logical it would be easy. the gospel is a trial of faith.
you were baptized for a reason, but no one said enduring to the end was easy. faith requires constant nourishment and attention. the gospel is true. it took almost losing everything to get that. and my love for the church, the restoration, and even more important, the atonement has grown in ways that i never realized it could. knowledge comes after the trail of your faith. don't let this opportunity to grow in enlightenment slip away because it becomes difficult. you will be rewarded through your dilligence. i promise. i've been there, and i can honestly say i've never been happier.