I am new to this websit. still learning how to use it. I saw at the top of the page the topic of the page divorce, depression and the p word. I cant seem to be able to get into this email to read it. I am one of the many who just found out that my marriage is also plegued by affairs, and porn and I am desperate to read what I can to help me work through this with my husband. It is killing me inside and I feel like I just am not sure how to deal with this. I want to find articles to read that may help me not to respond just emotionally about it . If anyone can help me please....I am open. I dont want to hate my spouse, or throw in the towel but this has happen in the past only to find out that It never stopped. what am I to do, what do I have a right to do? I have a email *edited* if anyone can share with me anything positive, or helpful.