Ditto on two of the comments. It's easy to get wrapped up in 'what about me' while expecting others to be thinking outside themselves. Rather than placing blame, you might also consider what members of your ward might be enduring as well. Are there people who are sick or suffering? Are there heavy burdens that they bear which you don't know about? Yes, I agree that as members of the LDS Church, we are responsible to look after one another, but we're equally responsible not to pass judgment on one another or expect a selfless attitude from others that we do not exhibit ourselves.
The fastest way to feel better is to seek ways to serve them, not wait for them to help you (particularly if they don't know you're in need of help.)
