I want to thank everyone for their responses. If my original post hurt anyone or made some folks "blood boil" that was not my intention. The "aiding and abetting" question was actually posed to me by a non-member and I wanted clarification on that.What I thought were questions that I wanted answers to because of my own ignorance and have seemed to turn into a free-for-all on my character. Comments such as.. "People dislike things that appear rooted in bigotry or elitism. I don't know whether the OP has racist or elitist tendencies but it's easy to read them into the original post" "It kinda sounds like you have a bit of a vendetta against the hispanic/latino population that you really need to get over quick." I will have you know,on a daily basis I have all different races of people in my home and welcome them with open arms. My sons and I have friends that are Asian, Hispanic and African American. I wonder how many of you that are so quick to judge me can say this. My dilemma was the distraction in meetings which could have been answered with "move to the front", as a wise poster suggested,and I will do. I hope anyone else that comes to this forum in the future with questions that may be bothering them and need patience,understanding and love doesn't get the same treatment that I have. My questions could have been answered simply by someone saying "It is not aiding and abetting because.......", But instead I was called a bigot,racist,etc. Not at all what I expected. To those of you that had legitimate answers to my questions I so appreciate it and have taken it to heart and will pray about it.