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Thanks for everyone's comments, they are all very helpful. I am finally baptised now, I was baptised on the 11th March. It was amazing, I loved it. The missionary that baptised me was perfect for the job. I had 2 missionaries and made them flip a coin for who baptises me And the missionary that baptised me at first I was is this the right one but I trusted him and it turned out to be the right person because I didn't feel nervous then, does any of that make sense ? lol

My ex boyfriend used to cut himself but he was just attention seeking because he would show the world. Anyway I do realise there are people out there that do it as pain relief but its just silly its just trying to cover up the problems instead of solve them (I do understand because I've been there). I suggest that you try to ask your sister what the problems are that are making her cut herself and see if there are anyways of solving them, but sometimes its emotional things that cause it which you can't really solve so suggest she sees a counsellor to talk things over. I don't know if this helped but I tried

I think you are wrong about members judging to quickly, at my ward I turned up one day 15 with a huge bump (I was 7months pregnant) and not one of them gave me a funny look or made any sort of comments. I felt, rather than them judge me, they loved me more.

Thanks for your comment. I am aware that it is a life long commitment, I have been going to church on and off all my life but since September started going every Sunday and then the day of my son's blessing I got up and spoke and it was then it hit me, I was in the right place, I was meant to be here. Then I thought it over for a week and on my way home from the gym I bumped into two missionaries from my ward and I asked them if they (or the other missionaries) would start teaching me because I want to be baptised and they were over the moon lol. So now I've been having the missionaries come round and teach me and the feeling of knowing this is right gets stronger and stronger. I kind of went off topic a bit then but ah well.

Thankyou for your post, and I will pray about it but I would date in or out of the church because there are still some good people who aren't the same religion.

I'm a very good Mum and I'm not talking about marriage, just dating. Also the not getting on with girls has nothing to do with me not getting on with lads. I try really hard to get on with girls but they don't like me because I'm not like them, but I get on really well with lads, nearly all my friends are lads. Oh and the father not being around has nothing to do with me. I would have stayed with him but he split up with me once he found out I was pregnant.

Well thanks for your advice, but I think I'll just date people outside the church then, I'm waiting until the end of my exams (so a few months) before I start dating again but I do realise people in the church won't accept me at the moment and I'm not waiting til I'm 20 because I don't get on well with girls so I would end up completely lonely.

Hey, I'm new. I'll tell you a little bit about myself so you kind of get the picture. I'm 16 and a mum, my son is 3months old today and I'm not with the father. Well I've been going to church every Sunday since September and I'm going to be getting baptised on the 11th of March. I have decided that I wouldn't want to date outside the church but will anyone want me even though I'm a mum?