So me and my "girlfriend" are both LDS. We're 14. And yes, this is considered "bad" I guess in our religion, because we could break the law. The earthly AND heavenly law. Why? Because we could do "inappropriate things" to eachother. We aren't like, dating as in going to movies and sitting alone on a park at midnight watching the stars, but more like just being around eachother with large groups of teenagers and having fun and hugging eachother and stuff. Here's the catch: My parents are glad that I have a "girlfriend" because they are really easy going and don't care as much about that kind of stuff. Her parents, on the other hand, are really, really faithful. You know, like hardcore mormos. They don't listen to ANY music that swears AT ALL, and her dad is the bishop. They don't know we are "going out", because she knows they will tell her to break up with me. And that will be sad cause we really do like eachother A LOT. I've liked her since I was like, 10. And she never liked me and now she finally does, for some odd reason. But who cares I'm taking it all in! Haha! Back to the subject. I don't do drugs or do bad things to myself or others or look at pornography or any of that really bad stuff. The worse I do is listen to screamo and watch death note. And in my eyes it's not really that bad.
Anyway, her mom saw a post of hers on facebook that said "I love you" to me and she said she didn't want my girlfriend telling any guys "i love you" until she was 16. Already screwed over there.
Okay, lets skip all the sob talk here and cut to the point. How should me or her tell her parents. The way I told my parents was "It's just for fun, you know, like we like eachother, but it's not like we're going to make out on a couch for 2 hours right? And when we do see eachother, there's gonna be TONS of other teens!" But that was my parents. My parents as in the ones who watch 300 and Daredevil and The Matrix and listen to Linkin Park and swear when they're mad. That's not her parents. Her parents are the exact opposite.
So what should we do here? Is there a way to tell her parents without it ending up in her crying and telling her that she has to break up with me? Because I really want to be with her. Now. And don't go saying crap I already know about not dating until your 16 because we will have sex with eachother, cause the only way that would happen before we were married would be for hell to freeze over!
Thanks for listening to me rant. Sorry I like to let out my emotions.
