I need some advice. I am married to a man that we both want a divorce. We realize that yes, we did make a commitment to each other but it isn't healthy for us to be together, physically and mentally. We separated in October of last year and he then started having an affair with another woman. We are now back to living together because both of our families can't accept that we aren't going to stay together so we are showing them that we can't stand each other and that we are better separated and friends then together as husband and wife. The other Sunday, my husband was pulled into the Bishop's office and told that even thinking about getting a divorce is a sin. We are not active nor were we married in the temple nor are we endowed, we both have been inactive over 5+ years. He has decided that he does want to go back to church but was told that he isn't welcome without me at his side (I am not interested) and that if we get a divorce, the church will not be in his life anymore. I've been looking to find out if anything has been said about a divorce being a sin. We both know that he committed adultery but the Bishop wasn't addressing that when they were talking. Do any of you know if what the Bishop said was true? I am asking this because now, my husband is hesitate on getting a divorce.
