alright here is my situation; i am almost 16, the girl i love is mormon. i am not. i realize that her religion is extremely important to her and thats fine. im more than willing to convert and she wants me to. none of that is the issue. my questions is whether or not as a mormon you are allowed to defer your missionary commitment in order to serve. this came up as i was researching missions and other requirements in order to become mormon. is there any truth to this?