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Thanks everyone for your comments! It's helped me to better understand her and know I don't need to get uptight about the subject. I later talked to her, apologized for coming off so strong, and asked if we could come to an understanding. We talked a little more about it and everything is fine now. :)

Hello, I have a friend who has a differing option from me. I'm not sure if it is solely a question of option or if it has to do with morality and if there is a right/wrong to it... For explanation purposes, i'm a male and my friend is female. We're also seriously dating and talking about marriage. Over the phone, she told me that when she or her sister takes a bath, a lot of the time there's a conversation party in the bathroom including the two sisters and their mom. The situation goes where one is taking a bath, and the other 2 are just sitting in the bathroom and they're all talking. No curtain in the tub is pulled, so whoever is in the bath is exposed to the other two. I told her i didn't think this was right, and had a problem with it. Not much else was discussed because she got reserved, defensive and didn't want to talk about it. In my view, i dont think you should expose yourself to anyone unless it's a legitimate reason (doctors visit, or when two people are married). I can understand if her and her sister were kids, but they're both in their 20's. I know they're not exposing themselves for the sake of it, or a 'look at me' type of deal. But it bugs me that no curtain is drawn. I just have an uneasy feeling about the whole situation. So above is the situation. My question lies if there's a morally right/wrong to it, or if mine and her options are just opinions, nothing wrong or no changes needed to be made. I'm asking because if it's not a moral issue, i dont want to press the subject. Any advice?? Thank you!!!