Dent

I am in Utah and my ex is as well.

Some are asking if I should even pursue legal action. Since I've moved. This is my third bishop in 2+ years(1st bishop when I was married to the beast, 2nd because I'll explain, and now where I'm at). I've only been in this ward for 3 months at most. My previous two bishops have threatened to excommunicate me because of the lies my ex has been saying about me. Even my previous stake president threatened to ex me. I'm also self employed and she went out of her way to lie about me to my business partners. Now they won't even talk to me or deal with me. Which has hindered my business. Now that I've been divorced for so long, she wrote a 2nd letter my current bishop making up false accusations. My last bishop, current bishop, and stake president won't even let me touch the letters. They won't let me look at them, copy them, or whatever BUT I can see it's her handwriting from across the room. She even went to my community and spread her filth. That's why I had to move to my current ward. You guys have no idea how bad it is. Just because you're a divorced mom... Doesn't mean you're "special". She has taken this to a whole new level. I am learning you can use certain gifts from God for good and/or bad. She has the "gift of tongue" and she knows when to cry, laugh, speak garbage, etc...

I am about ready to do so. Since I recently moved here, I'm in the process of finding out how to get in touch with my Stake President. I'm more than ready for the Area Seventy and General Authority.

I assume there is the original record stating our basic information. What you called the IOS. My first meeting with my bishop, he pulls out a few papers along with the letter with my ex's handwriting and my bishop was going through the letter, but not reading it. I made a new appointment with my new bishop. I go in and sure enough... There's that stupid disparaging letter. It was transfered with my IOS. This is what makes me furious. He won't copy it, as I have asked. He won't let me touch it, as I have asked. I have mentioned... How can I defend myself when I can't even see the letter. He said, I can't let you have it but I'll read it to you. That never came to pass. He will just go through a few accusations that are on it. Today I go in, and my new bishop whips out another freakin letter he said that my ex wrote to him, just this week. My ex wrote it and gave it to the bishop. My ex's bishop then gave it to my bishop. I asked for it today and he said no. I mentioned this is unjust, and he said he won't hand me anything that will hurt another person. I'm like... WTF???

Loudmouth- So far... All I can find is IF that accusation is actually a child molestation, etc... Like you mentioned. Something serious. In my case it is not. Just defamation. I know this is a strange question, as it baffled my attorney.

John Doe- These letters continue to follow me where ever I go. I've moved and changed wards. My new bishop asks me questions about these letters. So they are in my personal records. The strange thing is... I can't even read them as my bishop has them in is hands with my ex-spouses handwriting. My lawyer cautioned me on what I can do, but he's expensive and I'm seeing if I can find out myself and not pay him hundreds of dollars to do so.

Like I said, he can't BUT WASN'T SURE. So yes I'm asking a bunch of strangers in hopes one of these strangers is a student of law.

I'm currently going through some nastiness with my ex spouse. To the point where I'm literally getting dragged through the mud within my own business, community, and ward. This person has gone a long way, out of their way, to write two seperate letters to my bishop making up false stuff about me. I'm curious if I can get my church records subpoenaed for a defamation lawsuit? My lawyer said we couldn't but wasn't sure, so I'm asking here. I'm not a lawyer, but I wish I was in times like this? Thanks!