Over the years, once in a blue moon, I would find pics saved on the computer of movie stars prevocatively dressed and stretched out on a couch, etc. I asked him about them but he would say that it must be his boys. I let it go. To make this short, 2 days ago, I was checking out saved docs on his laptop and came across an article about addiction to pornography. I then decided to check out the browser history and sure enough I found that he was a member of this dating site called Be Naughty where he had even uploaded a picture of himself. I also found tons and tons of links to pictures of women dressed up in role playing outfits from an online store site.
When I confronted him with all this, he tried to deny it of course, but I told him that I saw the browser history. He is already seeing the Bishop about other personal issues which I won't get in to, but that he knows I am aware of, actually the Bishop even knows that I am aware. I asked my husband if he had spoken to the Bishop about this and he said he hadn't.
My husband has a strong tendency to be dishonest in many things and after this, I am not sure I can trust him any more.