My bad, thank you for pointing that out, ouch! when I created the profile I slipped up and thought I corrected the setting a few hours after reviewing my profile but I dont think I hit save on the edit, hopefully it is changed now. The definition above describes my situation out here well enough. been here since Nov. You go through an emotional down period for about 2-3 months where the seperation and learning new work environment overwhelms. I think I am just coming out of this period. Thank Heavens for Skype.