carguy12

Ok I'm gonna get right to the point...........I got my drivers license 6 months ago and i haven't been able to drive because my mom wont take time to put me on her insurance plan. I'am paying for it myself, and she just wont do it. I needed somewhere to blow off some steam because i really thought she'd finally do it today and she STILL DIDN'T. I really wanted to be able to drive my girlfriend a few different places before she moved and now 3 weeks before she moves I still don't have insurance. It's something thats really bugging me.

It's just somethin i've seen people do in other forums on other sites when they want their topic to be put back to the top of the list when there aren't many people saying anything

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Ok so im planning on moving to arizona before my mission for a year and i dont even know where to start......the problem is I'm canadian. Does anybody know if it'd be possible for me to go there and work for a year?

Ok this is going to be the final post I make in this thread because I feel as though this has now become an attack on me for some reason. It has become something that I didn't want and in future threads I will put more thought into what I will say because people obviously need to know the full story.I left out some very important facts, which are my reasons for why I started this thread, and because of this, I will believe those to be the reasons for all of your false assumptions. It also appeared that I made some of you adults mad, so I'll apologize for that. Thank you to the people that actually did help me out with my question, I really appreciate it.

Ok all I'm going to say to those of you who decided to make assumptions about this, is that you dont know the real reason I'm asking and to basically say I'm immature and I'm jealous of my bishop getting to be alone with my girlfriend is crazy. I get alone time her, so being jealous of him has nothing to do with it. I have my reasons to ask this and honestly these reasons are none of any of your business, so now at least you know that i dont have jealousy issues with my bishop.

"P.S. You don't know me well enough to refer to me as "dude"." Oh and you know me well enough to criticize why im asking this stuff? you have no idea what could be going on with me and my girlfriend. dude............you are completely full of it.

"We have to remember that a youth is poking at this in a temper tantrum. To have him insinuate that his Bishop is on the same level as he is is ridiculous in the extreme." hahahaha a temper tantrum?..........I haven't said anything to a lot of people on here who have been assuming things about me in this topic but dude, I just had to say something to you. I truely believe I'm bringing up a good topic here and to say I'm having a tantrum is ridiculous. Sounds more to me like YOU are having a tantrum about what I'm saying. I'm not insinuating hes on the same level as me.........I'm saying he shouldnt be put in a room alone with a 16 year old girl without someone else being around.

ok listen, I fully understand what I'm asking here.............I'm just questioning how girls under the age of 18 can just go to a man in a closed office without someone being around that's all.

Nah sorry its just kinda late and im tired so its hard to think. But her mother is so protective with her around men and then she can just go walk into the bishops office alone with no other people around?...........I'm questioning how this is right.

I'm not sure what you mean. I'm not sure if this is what you're asking but I'm sure the less threatening would be going to the bishop to most of you because the bishop isnt her boyfriend, but he's an older man none the less

So tonight my girlfriend tells me that she is going to the bishop about something and I started thinking..........how is it not ok for her to be alone with me, but it is ok for her to go into a confined space with an older man alone? I'm gonna keep this short and sweet, so how is this right?

iam not and i repeat AM NOT! getting baptized for the girl.

i wouldnt mind a few group dates but i also dont see a problem with individual dating either.....im 16

im saying its the church that pulled us apart because her mother talked to my mother and i once about how she wants ehr to go on group dates and stuff like that which is in the for the strength of youth booklet

im not joining for her....its for myself

ok i could understand if i was a greasy guy who didnt care about nothin and was into some bad things but im acknowledging her religion and im even close to getting baptized for myself because i like it but i never did anything wrong and it is definetly thier lose by not letting their daughter date me.

the church pulled us apart because of the stupid dating rules that seem so controling and pointless to me. i thought people in this church lived by their own will. it pulled us apart because her mom is deeply into the church and really takes it very seriously. for the past 6 months she had been pressuring my girlfriend to not go out with me. i had shown nothing but repsect to this girl and family and this is how her LDS family treated me. to me they were sneaky and just trying to do what was right for them and nobody else. so if this is what all people are like in the church then i really have to reconcider baptism. like i said in my first post, i have lost a ton of faith in this church because of it. and i dont mean to sound concieted but if this is how they treat good people then i'd like to see them when you do something wrong.

just now i had broken up with my girlfriend because of the stupid rules regarding dating in the lds church. i have come to believe that they are only out to make sure people dont lose virginity. my girlfriend and i were so harmless and so good together but the church pulled us apart and i have lost a lot of faith in the church because of it.