I've been struggling with these two things off and on for 8 years. I've started to go to church again, but feel like I need to speak to the bishop. I'm not familiar with him and I am told that he is not understanding of peoples sins. I'm a female which makes it even more uncomfortable. I did confess to my YSA bishop years ago and he was really cool about it, but this one I'm not sure of. Heard of somethings that made me uncomfortable about talking to him. What should I do???