ARDEN

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  1. So I have a question about receiving personal revelation and answers to prayers. I've discussed this with others before but I am still not sure on the answer. My question is, is someone who has broken commandments like the LoC and things of that nature still able to receive revelation for themselves? Or are they somewhat cut off from receiving answers and personal revelation because of their actions? From what i've been told yes they are still able too. I believe this is the right answer because wouldn't someone need direction from Heavenly Father to get them out the state they are in now? This is something that has just been on my mind and I would like to see what others have to say. (: Edit: I'm sorry if I posted in the wrong subject thread haha.
  2. Backroads - Exactly! I don't want to be the girl where things have just worked out a tad better than the rest of his relationships so then he thinks well then we'll just do the marriage thing. I highly doubt that, but I don't want to jump into something if that is the case. I have never discussed marriage. I have kept that a special discussion with who I could seriously see myself spending eternity with. I've noticed with him that is somewhat a much more casual discussion, at least I feel like it is because he has had it with his other girlfriends. But maybe I'm just much less open to that kind of thing and he's a lot more open. Which isn't a bad thing at all..
  3. This may be a subject that you all can't really help me with because it's all about my views but I'm wondering if anyone has ever felt the same way? So I'm 21 years old in college and I have been seriously dating a guy who I can see myself marrying. I haven't been in a relationship where I was really seriously thinking about marriage until now. Marriage, and a Temple marriage is extremely important to me so I don't take it lightly. I would not discuss marriage with someone who I didn't feel I was able to marry. My boyfriend has been talking about getting married and starting a family together soon. I would LOVE that and it feels right but I am very worried. I've gotten to know him and he's discussed his previous relationships. I've realized that he has felt like this with others too. Almost every other girl he has dated. I don't know why that bothers me so much but it does. I feel like this is a routine that he goes thru. Like he hits a certain time in a relationship and then he feels like this is the next step he HAS to take. Does this make sense? It might be that I just have had a different view on how I see and deal with relationships. But it's making me doubt the.. realness? of this relationship. I don't want to be a routine thing.. I don't know if this sort of thing has been an issue with anyone else. If it has please do share because I don't know what to do.