I go through the same thing my man. Similar situation. I live in the Beehive State and when I got home from my mission in Colombia I immediately noticed that people here are quite reserved (unlike the friendly colombians I had gotten used to). I guess its a culture thing, but I do think that we as members need to wake up and realize that we're supposed to be unified as a people. John 17 always comes to mind and I feel like it is soooo important that we become one as a people. We can't do that if there are members who are being left out. I always have to remember that when I notice a problem that I have to do something about it and not wait for somebody else to do so. That's hard if you're not the bubbly, get to know everybody in the ward on your first Sunday at a new ward type. Even still, I know that I can only expect change if I start the revolution. I try to remember (sometimes I forget though), that the adversary would certainly do whatever he could to try and keep us from being a unified people. We can't allow him to succeed cause it would surely go a long way in halting our progression. We all need each other, thankfully.