hellolove

So I think I had posted something about personal revelation awhile ago and I was satisfied with the feedback that I had gotten because it did answer my question. Then I read a bit of the talk by Elder Lund: Personal Revelation: Receiving and Responding to the Voice of the Lord. Now I'm somewhat confused again. I realize that being worthy is a HUGE part of how in tune you are with the spirit and that by being in tune you will be able to hear the promptings of the Holy Ghost. So Elder Lund was saying how IF you are worthy only then you will be able to receive revelation for yourself and you won't be mislead. So I understand this and understand the reasoning for this. My question is that I think the people who have made wrong choices and have been mislead in their lives are the ones that need personal revelation the most. I am one of them. I understand that it's because of our actions that we make the barrier between us and our Heavenly Father. So how are we able to get back on track with our lives with Heavenly Father being farther away from us?

I need some relationship advice, and I figure that after asking the people that I know I would come here where I know what I believe in is shared with all of you too. I'm a college student and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months. I knew that my boyfriend had issues with the LofC before dating him and i knew about his past relationships with other girls. I knew starting a relationship with him would be risky business but I decided to look past his problems because we all have our own and he has been actively trying to fix this. So we started dating and it has been a lot harder than I expected. He's also shared with me recently that he has an addiction with pornography that he is trying to get rid of. We've discussed what he wants out of life and he wants the gospel and the Savior in his life. He wants to be worthy to enter the temple and have a temple marriage. I admire his strength and his continuous ability to fight this.. But I'm not sure if I should get myself involved in something like this. I do love him and I would love to marry him but I've heard and also read about how pornography can ruin families. So what do I do? I think that this battle will last a lot longer than anyone wants it too..