Thanks so much for the advice. I love my wife but I'm losing interest in her as every day passes. She drains me. She is so negative I don't know what to do.... I've spoken with her about it and it doesn't help. It's true. I either need to get off the horse now or saddle up for a tough ride. We've only been married for two years so either way there can be recovery. I really appreciate you guys. I know a marriage takes two, plus the Lord but I feel we've never had any sort of spiritual bonding.