No talking does this as well as someone in the relationship not being honest with who they are. That is why you should wait to get married and really search and pray for the person you are to be with. If I was you, I would 1st get a serious blessing from a strong priesthood holder for answers from the Father. The 2nd part we will have to wait to find out what the blessing said. And Eowyn, this is a VERY serious thing what she is going thru. She needs help and no one has the right to judge. Read the New Testament, you will see. Also Eowyn, I listened to God himself. Not anyone else on this question of marrying my wife. The issues are still there and she doesnt want to talk about it by blowing it off.