gringoculto

Hello to all. I jsut registered fo the foum and thought I would introduce myself. I was a convert to the Church in 1980 and lasted 24 yers. that included beign a bishop and a temple sealing. I am 58 In 2004, i chose to leave the marriage...gave her my half of the house without any negotiation, payed off almost two third of the debts and stayed in the same town fo the sake of my 16 year old son for three years In 2006, i came back to the Church as a result of a disastous 6 month courtship and mariage to an LDs woman also in that town. She was billiant, beautiful and sexy....but profoundly damaged...a combinatibn of Post trautamtic stress disorder and Borderline pesonality Disorder. She literally panicked, ran away after 62 days of mariage and field fo a divoce without telling her bishop or her brother who was the fist counselor in the bishopic. three months ago she wrote my an apology note for treating me so badly almost 6 years ago. She rejected all effots to get back together and in retrospect, although it was the most painful time of my life, i could not have survived with her. I have livied and traveled in Colombia, Peru and ecuador since 2008. Two weeks ago my fist wife with whiom I have maintained civil contact informed me that she wanted to re marry (in the temple) to another Mormon and her bishop sent me the standard I need a letter from you. My question....whata re my options? After I get some feedback, I tell you what I am thinking