I can understand some of the doubts that could originate from what I put in the original post. It is often very difficult to analyze or judge well without all of the facts. As I stated in the original post, there are many "third party factors" (and even direct factors) that I don't think proper to expose to public view, which have led to the idea of ending the marriage but conserving the temple sealing. To say the least, I have talked with the temple presidency, bishop of my ward, and even a psychologist(member of the church) that believes this to be a very rare case. As for the question, I thank those that have given an answer, and for the input of others. I asked the question because I still have hope... we had moments of happiness. It's hard to explain and I wouldn't expect anyone to fully understand. I guess for now it'll just be put it into God's hands, continue with what we think is the best solution(not just for myself but for my wife also), and let God's will be done.