Lets be fair, God ordained this marriage. This was a real marriage. Do not downplay the marriage because of th ehealth f the marriage. Pray, study, repent, and work with your leaders. God has given us perfect truth and given us a way to progress. The only way we can progress is by being truthful with ourselves and not allowing justification to creep in. I stand with you and will send my families prayers. I know from experience that Tithing, a true heart felt full honest dedicated to the lord tithe is one an excellent way to bring the family together in purpose. My family has been through its ups and downs. The one thing I have learned is that Gods love is perfect and that he pairs us with people that will help us prepare for what ever we need to prepare for in the next life. Be perfectly honest with yourself,your family, your ecclesiastical leaders, and God. God will guide you. We stand with you and your loved ones in prayer. Best Wishes- ConcernedMajority