Actually, I am both, in a way. Yes, I used to be an active member, but decided to leave, due to emotional and mental distress. SO last year My husband and I after being ignored by 2 different Bishops, for 6 years when we asked to be removed from the books of the Church, and emotionally and spiritually abused by one, I contacted my friend and former Bishop and he made sure the process was set into motion. My husband received his letter that the action had been finished and that his name had been removed from the Church rolls last November, but mine has not been received as of yet, almost a year later. My friend who had set things in motion, said that he had failed me, and that G-D would require it of his hand and he would have to give account for it to the L-rd, passed away shortly after that statement. I went to his Memorial Service and then a few days later to the VA Cemetery for his Interment, where I told the Bishop that I didn't care what happened to my membership status. I have been calling him for nearly 6 months off and on, to find out what is going on, but he has not responded to any of my calls. I also called my friends who are about to go on a Senior Mission, but they said they didn't know either, so I am trying to find out what is going on and why I have not received my letter yet.
I was close to suicide and had lost all my faith in ANY G-D when I left because of the way I was mistreated by a Bishop. I decided to return to my former faith to save my life. This was not done lightly. I hope I have shed a little light on the subject. If you want more information, we will have to PM or something, because I bared my soul as much as I felt comfortable in Public.