Thanks for all the comments! I do appreciate them! Here is a little more of the situation...the mama is in Cub Scouts and they meet at 5:30. Daddy isn't home yet from work, so she brings all the kids (including the baby she just had). The kids are home-schooled and my husband told me last night, "I bet she doesn't feed them before they come to church and that's why they come 'looking' for food." They moved here about a year now. I know they have struggled with money, but I have been to their home. They have food--just not the junky food we usually have at church (like chips or cookies or cakes). The smaller kids run free in the church, while the mama is usually just in the foyer with the baby. She is usually talking or reading.
Thanks for the suggestions. I plan on mentioning to the YW Pres. again. We have all talked about it before, but just come to the conclusion that if we have extra I guess give it to them. The YM Pres. is like, "If they come wanting food, I'm not gonna turn them down." To me, it's not even about that--I don't mind giving ever so often, but like this past Wed. when we were doing something special for one of our girls for getting their reward, I didn't like that they come in there. Maybe it's my issue and I need to work on that. Thanks again ya'll!! :)