looking4lds

I am looking to become LDS in the future, and he is a non-active member; also he is trying to become active again. Also, I am looking for LDS advice.

Myself. I still want to marry the guy, but I need to be able to communicate to him as well. Looking for other perspectives on how to go about it.

My fiance thinks of me as a little kid sometimes. For instance, the other night I woke up from sleeping and accidentally knocked over a cup that had a little bit of milk in it, which in turn fell on our power protector and knocked out the electricity in the back of the house. Easy fix: flip the circuit breaker. He yelled and didn't understand how ignorant I was. And then today, I am still sick (not too sick but tired and congested) and had to go clean my parent's house (like I do every week/ once a week), I get home and he is painting the living room. He got more sleep than me and I have already been cleaning. I said I would clean some of our house today but I wanted to take a little bit of time to relax. I hung up our curtain rod and curtains before relaxing. But then he got aggravated with the painting and left. Well, he is mad at me because I don't feel like cleaning right now, that really hurts my feelings because he called me lazy. But I am sick, I have tomorrow after work (when he won't be home) to clean. It is our last day off together and I would prefer to relax, get better, and spend time with him. Last night we did not really spend time together because we were doing our own thing. What should I do? I do not like feeling horrible about myself, when I do stuff, but maybe not when he does stuff. Thanks and God Bless!

I have a question from a friend about child molestation. The story is: he was 21, she was 15 at the time. This was like 4 years ago, he would like to be active in the church again but fears that his Bishop would have to tell police about what he did, and he would go to jail. All they did was touch breasts, she gave him oral for a minute or so, he did not "go." She was completely willing and wanted him to be her first, he said no and left. He feels really badly about it. And he needs some advice. Any thoughts? Thank you and God Bless!