Sally7888

That was in reference to your comment SoCal_Counselor

I agree with what you have said completely. Now I know they have known each other a long time before things started happening with his marriage. Not to defend them or anything but I think a relationship developed between them that was more than romance and passion. I know the circumstances are totally wrong but I believe it was more than that. I will suggest her the site and see if it helps her in her decisions.

Yeah I know it'll be a long road, sad road ahead of her. But she wants the journey with him. I guess if it works out then they'll be that much stronger. I keep hoping.

Yeah but I can't tell her that. She said she tried to stop seeing him and being around him but she loves him. I can't tell her she can't be with him. So I don't know...

Yeah I agree.... But she swears he's different. He tells her she's made him a better person and he wants to be better and more involved in church. I don't know it's a hard position to be in and I don't know what or how to help. She's very stubborn and believes deep down he's a good man.

I believe she said that he was sealed in the temple to his wife years ago but he has been inactive for a long, long time.

Also, with excommunication how does that work? Is she still able to attend church and such she's just not an official member and will have to be baptized again?

Okay, thank you for your input. If she/he don't know their bishop because they haven't been going to church, do they go to the bishop that is ahead of their ward boundaries? I'm just wondering cause I have no idea. She says and asks a lot of things and I don't know how to answer her because I have not been active myself.

Do you know anything about the process or things she'd have to go through. I've already tried to warn her but she says she loves him and such.... It's tough.

I have a question... I am a member of the lds faith but have been inactive since I was young. Currently I have a sister who has fallen in love with a married man who is in the middle of a divorce. I believe they have been intimate despite what she says. She is not very active in the church but is a member and so is the guy she's seeing. Anyway she thinks that god will forgive both of them and eventually they can be sealed and married when holy again. I'm not sure if this can happen under the circumstances and I was just wondering if it was even possible. I know her faith is still important to her but is she way off target with this? Thanks for any input.

I have a question myself on this topic... I am dating someone who is divorcing... We have been intimate. We both are of lds faith and would want to marry in the temple one day. Is that possible and what would the repentance process entail?