Yes my husband is an active and endowed member of the church. In the beginning of our marriage I really struggled with sex... We had three young children and my sex drive was non existent. My husband often felt rejected by me and we went through some rough times. I finally feel like I have found my sexuality and our sex life has been much better which in turn helps us get along better as husband and wife. I feel closer to him than I ever have before. It's like, the more I want sex the happier my husband is and the closer we become. If wearing lingerie out on a date with him ends in us getting closer, I don't see what is so bad about it.
