I’ve been married to her for 4 years. I am not a member of the church but she is. We lived together in Virginia and she moved with our two children to Texas in July for what I thought was to finish school. I went to Texas last Saturday to visit my family and she left our children in the care of their cousin. I was told she was going to a study group on Tuesday and then on to her grandmothers for Thanksgiving by herself. She dropped all communication with me and our children on Tuesday afternoon and by Thanksgiving had still not turned on her phone. No one in our family knew where she was and she was not at her grandmothers. I called the police to file a missing persons report and the police were able to get a hold of her at a number that I did not know. Her cousin, who lived with her, called on Thanksgiving to speak to me about the knowledge of alcohol abuse, marital indiscretion, and beating our children. She apparently went across the state to have an affair with a 19 year old. She is 30. She lied to her dad by telling him that I was not giving her money to support the children and it is with this money he sent her that she was able to drive across the state for affair. Her Grandmother has known and kept hidden from the family about the affair for over 6 months.
