Justlikeyou

Holly, It sounds like you are blaming only yourself for the breakup. The fact is that he did not give you enough confirmation that he also felt the same way you did. Who decided on the ring first. You. The wedding plans. You. When you saw him pulling away you pulled in harder, faster, you clung on to him and he kept on refusing you but you just became obsessed with his approval. His forgiveness. You gave him more than your heart. Now he is cruel enough to tell you the truth. He is a man. Men are different than us. They need their space. They almost want a girl to be mean to them. They like a challenge. Don't beg for him to love you. I know you are hurting, you feel rejected and forgetten and you probably feel worthless. BUT NO!!! YOU are not all those things your mind would want you to believe. YOU are valueable. But no one will know this until you first of all.. Repent your sins to your bishop pray for strength READ,READ about how men communicate its so different. Read about relationships this will give you strength. You may even get him back. if you learn how. Look up Limerence on wikipedia love obsession, etc. It will teach you things you can't find in the scriptures you need to wise up. Do not withdraw and resent or hide away Wash your face, put on some nice makeup and perfume. Nice clothes, smile and learn from this Let me know if this helped I have been there more than once..

I'm married already. And the most important is Chemistry. I was engaged to a man that would have been the perfect LDS companion. Everything about him was perfect. But no chemistry. I cried to think I would be married to someone I didn't feel like kissing. Then, one day I saw my husband. He had just come out of the men's room and his zipper was open. No skin showing, okay. I had to tell him. I felt no embarrasment, I felt I knew him... I knew he would be my husband. I just went up to him and said, " Hi, Honey, your fly is open" He turned to me and gave me a smile that said, " Hi again" it was so right. The Chemistry. The love. It was instant. We have been married for 15 yrs. And the Chemistry has kept us together through the tough times all marriages go through. If you have nothing left, Chemistry will keep you together. Hey, telling my story was fun...

There are plenty of girls, you just need courage and an ounce of confidence.

Hi, may I suggest that you find love at single activities, rather than your ward. Even if you actual see someone you like. You migh have to date a few frogs before you meet your prince. I wish you the best. Moms have special needs and the next man you meet must be emotionally mature enough to understand you..

Just want to let you know that I can understand why you are having so many feelings that tug you in different directions, you feel ambivilent and confused and other times so sure- when making a big decisions that involve God, Jesus, your faith, your life, soooo much. I think people need to stop judging you. But they might not. So, the best advice is to think alone. Ask Heavenly Father to show you in the scriptures what path to take. You have all the resources you need. All you need is to search the answer in prayer and supplication. No one is going to give you the answer you are looking for, it will come to you through prayer...

So many friends come to me with their relationship problems. I'ts easier to give advice then to receive it. You know that's true! So, here I am.Your listening ear...